I am one of those that hate being given ultimatums.  I hate the pressure found from living the "do it or else" life style.  I can't tolerate it at work and hope I foster the atmosphere where that doesn't have to happen. 

Have you ever had special person in your life that asks questions, seeking your input, always ending the question the phrase that makes my skin crawl, "or what"?

While relaxing, catching up with the news and finally getting to sit down for the day,
Special person...."are you going to eat with us, or what"?

After getting all of my tools layed out next to my motorcycle for some needed attention,
Special person...."are you going to clean the yard, or what"?

While watching an entertaining documentary, almost in a trance state,
Special person...."are you watching that show, or what"?

While pulling out of the driveway on a mission to shop,
Special person...."are we going to eat lunch, or what"?

....or what, or what, or what!!!

Do it or else!

Then again, that's makes her special, the one I serve.

Love.

Life.